At 25, Never it's too late

Never, never, never and never, it's too late for anything.

We've been told that life is one, and there's only one train at one time. But, let me tell you, you have been cheated. There's so many trains you can jump on, and beginning the adventure, at any time, any moment, any point of your life, even at your 25's.

Yes, when you are 25 (and those older who gonna think OH MY GOD that's totally stupid I'm much older and I have real problems... I keep you guys for later, don't worry) you feel you are running out of life, and you have to start being settle down, with a path to follow, someone who love, and maybe a cat who feed.

I'm gonna tell you, a little secret: YOU CAN RELAX. It's just a part of the process, where the young hunger eats all at its footsteps, it's a normal thing the feeling you're a poorly old man dying on its bed.

Also there those who feel like Jack on that island at the first day of its plane accident. "Is there any polar bear who could guide me please?" He is totally fucked up. But the thing is, good news, as I said, you have a wonderful life to begin.

Kids don't have life, I'm sorry but this world of sweet cutie rainbows and lollipops is totally out of the business... I mean, there no decisions to choice, no points or goals in your days, no highlights, no interesting discussions or even sex.

Yep, I totally won you with that one uh?

One important matter: "never too late" is not compatible with excuses. We really apply those little cheeky ones everywhere. And it's right, totally right you have 1000 things to do before something, but, if you really love one thing, why not giving a try and have 1001? no big deal.

This post has no other intention than letting you know that I am gonna start blogging. I am promising you this is not going to be about smoothie bowls or deep pics about myself walking in a random park on a Sunday morning.

Looking forward to start my life at my 25, are you joining me in this uncertain but amazing journey?

Cheers!

The first step: focus on one thing

I am close to being 25 and It seems that finally I comprehend why things never turn out as I wanted: The key to success is to be focused on one thing. OK, The question is: Why this discoverment (that seems quite easy and obvious) has taken me so long? Since I have been a child my life has been completely sorted out. I went to the kinder garden, primary school, high school, university, post-university degree… At the end of the day, my life has followed a path and I felt comfortable as technically I was doing “the right thing”. 

In Spain, things became tough when the crisis. The people started being worried and crazy about work. The truth is I didn't care as my world wasn't trembling at all. Honestly, my crisis has been more something internal and chronic as I never had economical problems. And maybe because I didn’t face serious problems, I created a chain of a stupid world of “worryness" for stupid things. 

People used to say "life at uni is the best and one day you will realise it", and I have been realising it since I left uni. Maybe because I never find the happy path to what truly could make me happy. So the question is, what truly can make me happy? And the gold answer is, I don’t know. I think I will never know, as it depends on the moment in your life when your necessities change. “When you get what you want, but not what you need” So frequently we live in a world that continuously is giving us choices, opportunities, clothes, cars, traffic jams, cities, parks, restaurants, burgers, pizza, clubbing, friends and enemies, followers and those to follow, folders and subfolders, classification, order, belonging… At it seems that it's never enough. So many ideas, feelings or distractions that make difficult how to concentrate in one thing. But, this might be the key of success, or even for happiness. To set a goal and be focused to achieved it, not move forward until it's accomplished. First one thing, then another. It's very important to prioritize, to establish an order and set small goals, not a big one. 

Be realistic, think the possible ways to arrive where you want to, and if you don't know where these footsteps are gonna take you, at least enjoy the journey.